What do the Single do at Christmas

How to survive the holidays without killing your family. So it begins. You turn the calendar on your desk and eyes zoom in on the date. November 1st. Holiday season is upon us and no matter who you are -if you are Single (unattached, unmarried, and seemingly unapproachable) two thoughts go through your mind noContinue reading “What do the Single do at Christmas”

So the Journey begins…

Singleness is not where we just happen to be; it is where God has divinely placed us. If God put you here then there is no way that He can forget or overlook you. NOT Another Singles Book – Chapter 3 NOT Another Singles BookA Guide to Living Single in a Dating World:Love yourself andContinue reading “So the Journey begins…”

Welcome Back to Me…

It’s been 7 years. 7 years of growth, of setbacks, of trials, of heartbreaks, of triumphs, of seemingly insurmountable pains and definite incomparable promises. 7 years since I released my first book, ‘NOT Another Singles Book’. I’ve realized that I never allowed it to reach it’s potential because it was more powerful than I wasContinue reading “Welcome Back to Me…”

In. Jesus. Name.

** I remember praying over the last year for God to ‘fix it’, and attaching ‘in Jesus Name’ at the end of it. I also remember the disappointment each time, I prayed this and then found another lie, another her, another ‘this doesn’t line up with Christ and His heart for me’. Only until IContinue reading “In. Jesus. Name.”

Replacing Him with ‘them’: Intimacy transference in relationships

Intimacy. In-to-me-see. Intimacy is defined as a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with another person or group; a close association with or detailed knowledge–deep understanding of a place, subject, period of history, etc. We will discuss both of these definitions and how they relate to Singles as we transition into aContinue reading “Replacing Him with ‘them’: Intimacy transference in relationships”

DAY 24: I Never Danced With my Father Excerpt: Through My Eyes

MEMORIZE: When my mother and father forsake me then the Lord shall take me up.  Psalm 27:10 READ: Psalm: 27 Challenge #24: Briefly describe your relationship with your father and how you believe it has affected your romantic relationships. If your father is in your life in any way; call, text, email or tweet himContinue reading “DAY 24: I Never Danced With my Father Excerpt: Through My Eyes”

Day 23: If I Ain’t Got You…dealing with “the one that got away” Excerpt: Through My Eyes

  MEMORIZE: They came out from us because they were not of us. If they had been of us, they would have stuck it out with us. 1 John 2:19 READ: Psalm 91 CHALLENGE #23: Write a letter to the ex that you find yourself still attached to. Express everything that you have been tooContinue reading “Day 23: If I Ain’t Got You…dealing with “the one that got away” Excerpt: Through My Eyes”

The One He Kept

This blog won’t be long. It won’t be drawn out and poetical. There will be plenty of time for that. I’m now realizing that I had to fluff up my other situationships, because they didn’t have any true essence on their own accord. I was convincing others while trying to fool myself into believing thatContinue reading “The One He Kept”

DAY 18: Too Close for (or due to) comfort: Stop playing with the line

MEMORIZE: I have hidden your Word inside my Heart so that I might not sin against you Psalm 119:11 READ: Psalm 76 CHALLENGE: Think about that ‘line’ that you have been manipulating, walking just  close enough to touch it without actually crossing over into “sin”. Write it out and commit to pray over it specificallyContinue reading “DAY 18: Too Close for (or due to) comfort: Stop playing with the line”

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