12 Days Of MISSMas: Day 3 Letting Go

On the 3rd Day of MissMas I gave to Me the gift of…Letting Go. Letting Go can be hard. Whether it’s a situation that we find it difficult to move on from, a hurt or a pain that was caused by someone else, or letting go of a relationship, romantic or otherwise. We have becomeContinue reading “12 Days Of MISSMas: Day 3 Letting Go”

12 Days of MISS Mas…Day 1: Identity

12 Daily Blogs to my Single Ladies… On the first day of MISS Mas, I gave to me… ME (Identity) Getting ready for Christmas, or some symbolism of Christmas as 2020 has literally changed everything, I decided to write a blog from one Single lady to another. Each day we will talk about a differentContinue reading “12 Days of MISS Mas…Day 1: Identity”

Single, Not Alone – understanding the difference

In my first book, NOT Another Singles Book, I discuss in great detail the difference between being alone and feeling lonely. If you struggle with understanding this difference, you aren’t the only one. We’ve never been taught the fine line of being alone and being ok with it. Being alone is a matter of circumstanceContinue reading “Single, Not Alone – understanding the difference”

What do the Single do at Christmas

How to survive the holidays without killing your family. So it begins. You turn the calendar on your desk and eyes zoom in on the date. November 1st. Holiday season is upon us and no matter who you are -if you are Single (unattached, unmarried, and seemingly unapproachable) two thoughts go through your mind noContinue reading “What do the Single do at Christmas”

So the Journey begins…

Singleness is not where we just happen to be; it is where God has divinely placed us. If God put you here then there is no way that He can forget or overlook you. NOT Another Singles Book – Chapter 3 NOT Another Singles BookA Guide to Living Single in a Dating World:Love yourself andContinue reading “So the Journey begins…”

Welcome Back to Me…

It’s been 7 years. 7 years of growth, of setbacks, of trials, of heartbreaks, of triumphs, of seemingly insurmountable pains and definite incomparable promises. 7 years since I released my first book, ‘NOT Another Singles Book’. I’ve realized that I never allowed it to reach it’s potential because it was more powerful than I wasContinue reading “Welcome Back to Me…”

Replacing Him with ‘them’: Intimacy transference in relationships

Intimacy. In-to-me-see. Intimacy is defined as a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with another person or group; a close association with or detailed knowledge–deep understanding of a place, subject, period of history, etc. We will discuss both of these definitions and how they relate to Singles as we transition into aContinue reading “Replacing Him with ‘them’: Intimacy transference in relationships”